-Get your things back before you break up

Start collecting your things a few weeks before the breakup, and do it subtly. You don’t want him catching on, as that could prompt him to destroy anything of value.
 

Avoid the padded room: When packing your things up, start with the items that matter most just in case he does catch on to your plan. You don’t want to find yourself in a position where you have to beg him to return your belongings, trust me.
 

-Bring his things to the breakup

If you don’t, he’s likely to drop by your home when you least expect him, which can only lead to unnecessary stress and strife.

Avoid the padded room: You may be tempted to return gifts when breaking up with a psycho to emphasize finality, but we suggest you refrain from doing so, as that would probably send him even further over the edge.
 

-Change your passwords/profiles

Change these passwords before you head to the breakup; this will prevent him from electronically sabotaging you when he gets home. Don’t forget to change your online profile status to single, and be sure to delete the psycho from any contact lists you may have to prevent him from harassing you via IM or other methods of online chat.

Avoid the padded room: If you suddenly find yourself the recipient of nonstop phone calls and psychotic e-mails, you may want to change your phone number and e-mail address -- although this is an extreme case. The process involves far less hassle than it used to, and you’ll find the peace of mind well worth the minimal effort.
 

-Break up in a public place

Ask him to meet you at a café and don’t forget to bring his things inside with you. The more people present, the less likely he is to go ballistic. And, if

-Make your breakup public

While you certainly don’t need to broadcast the full story, we highly recommend you inform common acquaintances and any family members he’s been introduced to about your recent split. If you don’t, you run the risk of the psycho trying to use them as a

Change your routine/schedule

A good psycho will know your daily routine better than you do. He knows how you get to work, what time you go to lunch, what time you get home, and what you have planned for tomorrow. In short; you’re now primed for stalking. If he really wants you back, you can expect to start “accidentally” bumping into him several times a day. To avoid this, you’ll want to change your schedule as much as possible, even if it means adding a few extra minutes to your travel time or losing a few from your lunch break. In the grand scheme of things, you’ll find it a pleasant alternative.

And now start your neu life!

Without him of course:D